What I learned about self care from my husband

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This essay I wrote for Parents.com in December has been shared 1,800 times!

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My Husband Running Makes Me Rage & Here is What I Do About It

I spent plenty of time feeling bitter about how easy it is for my husband to take time away from our kids to relax, and then I decided to borrow his secrets for self-care.

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